Just catching up on your thread. Looking back at the photos where you pulled the manifolds off, there is no sign that the exhaust manifold was leaking either at the ports or at the flange. In fact you can see that the flange was sealing on the manifold side. I also seriously doub't that the fuel pump was overheating, but there's a first time for everything. What I do see is that the road draft tube on the lifter cover had been cut off. It should be about a foot longer. What your friend likely saw was blowby coming out of the stub behind the fuel pump, not exhaust. This won't make the pump overheat but it will eventually cause an oily mess and not ventilate the crankcase properly leading to sludge buildup. Also, the glass bowl fuel filter is not original (yes it's made by Carter, and yes it's old). The problem with a large fuel filter like this is they act like an expansion chamber and heat sink. Hot fuel under pressure won't boil or cause vapor lock, but hot fuel that is suddenly not under pressure will. You want the fuel to stay under pressure until it reaches the carburetor needle seat. I'm saying this because I found one of those filters back in high school, thought it would look cool and put it on. Hot soak restart problems soon followed and off it came again. My fuel pump packed it in soon after that, which was also probably part of the problem. The Airtex style pumps work better in my experience anyhow. I wouldn't be surprised if you have the same combination of issues. Try eliminating the glass fuel filter, and don't be shocked if you just need a new fuel pump.